Read Genesis 23.
One of the most stressful events in life is losing one's spouse. It involves processing the emotional pain of loss. Next comes the overwhelming sense of loneliness. Then, one must deal with the agony of transitioning to a new phase of life. Sarah died at age 127. Now, this 137 year old widower must bury his wife and carry on without her.
In planning the funeral, Abraham turned to his neighbors for an appropriate burial site. Do not miss their response to him in verse 6. "You are a prince of God among us."
His neighbors
recognized at least three things about Abraham in that one statement:
1. He was
deemed a leader among them.
2. He was a
respected in the neighborhood (a prince of a guy).
3. He was recognized as having a relationship with God.
Abraham could have taken advantage of the situation and acquired the burial site as a gift. But his integrity and ability superseded giving in to any pity the community had for him. He paid a fair price in this public transaction with a humble spirit.
Times of suffering are God's opportunities to demonstrate His grace and comfort to those who love Him. Family, friends and neighbors get to witness firsthand the difference genuine faith can make in a crisis. When this is evident, the question unbelievers are asking (whether spoken or unspoken) is, "How are you able to hold up like this? If it were me, I would be falling apart." Indeed, when the props are knocked out from under us, we need someone to lean on for strength.
Moses wrote: "The eternal God is your dwelling place, and underneath are the everlasting arms." (Deuteronomy 33:27) If our relationship with God and our trust in Him is where and how we live, then we can experience His faithfulness every day, not just when there is a tragedy. We cast our dependence on Him. We lean on those everlasting arms.
Though it may have felt like this was the end, God was not done unfolding His
plan for Abraham and his family. There is so much more ahead for him and
for us.
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